I used to over-fix my hair. I’d do things like wake up hours before school or sleep in curlers the night before. I was a bit of a “primper.” I now wonder who I was trying so hard to impress but since college, I’ve relaxed quite a bit. perhaps a bit too much if I’m being honest.

recently after looking at pictures I am appalled. my hair has grown out since the high school bob, and has discovered a mind of its own. I need to take the time to clarify here and now that I really do brush my hair, even using products like moroccan oil to ease frizz. I try to fix it like the celebs and have that messy curly look thats nearly impossible to achieve unless you spend even longer trying to do so. so its a constant and vicious cycle. below is how my hair looks these days and let’s get real, I need to fix a few things in my life...

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