Thursday, December 2, 2010

pardon my word vomit...

I’ve realized this: sometimes its good to not be able to sleep because your mind is racing. not necessarily concerning problematic areas of your life but rather areas you just want to improve. nothing is wrong with a little fixing, a little refocusing. and nothing is wrong with a yearning desire for more in your life. not entirely something different, maybe just a different approach to things. an adjustment of sorts. I’m adjusting...
I wrote this this morning while babysitting and had it saved as a draft. I then went to my comparative lit class, a class where all semester I’ve struggled on and off with what we discuss. there have been times I walk out so frustrated I consider dropping the class entirely but then other times I’m practically skipping out I’m so awestruck with the power of words and literature.

this is the thing about me-- I tend to walk around with a certain level of disconnectedness and yet I preach about being connected to everybody. walking contradiction, I regret to say. when bad things happen that hurt me I have a disassociation and fill myself with other things. I “busy” myself rather than getting to the root of the issue. but this cushioning ultimately forms a numbness, a numbness to life. and I think thats another part of where my struggle has come from in this class. I’m numb to the things we discuss because I’ve built up such a wall. a shield of sorts. because I like my sheltered bubble where bad things don’t typically happen. but thats not life. and the reality is I don’t like feeling numb.

today was our last day of class and it was one that moved me. I feverishly wrote two full pages of things I wanted to carry with me. in fact, I almost raised my hand and asked how they knew exactly what I’ve been consumed with. and then I realized the simple fact that despite the size of variety of who is in there, we are all going through similar things. we are all sharing life together. we discussed a few questions that sometimes I think we tend to forget. I ask you to ask yourself those things now.
-what do you care about?
-what kind of memories are we accumulating?
-how can most people not think?

because today they might have changed me.

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